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Is Your Online Porn Use Spiraling Out Of Control?

November 1st, 2017 @

So you’ve tried many times to limit or control your porn use. You stop. You feel good for a bit and in control of things. Your concentration returns as well as your focus. You may be off it long enough to start feeling more connected to other areas of your life. Then something happens and […]

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Category : Addictions &Blog &Featured &Porn

3 Tips for Fostering a Healthy Relationship with Your Partner

July 10th, 2017 @

Imagine this, you’ve found the love of your life, the love hormone is coursing freely through your veins and you experience what feels like an endless summer, each day you are bathing in the warm afterglow of intoxicating abliss. Loving relationships are an important part of our human experience and a major driving force in […]

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Category : Blog &Communication &CoupleStuff &Featured &Relationships

Coming Out – Inviting In

March 30th, 2017 @

“Coming out” is generally how the process of letting people know you are same-sex attracted has come to be known. This process – and indeed it is a process – is different for everybody. It’s also something that all same-sex attracted people have in common, having gone through their own “coming out” process. People often […]

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Category : 'Coming Out' &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Young Men

Fostering our Self-Esteem

March 27th, 2017 @

Self-esteem has been one of those hotly researched topics in recent years. In our self-help era we are told that having a positive self-image is the necessary ingredient to leading a happy and successful life. While it may be true that how we think about ourselves is directly associated with our psychological wellbeing, the big […]

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Category : Blog &Featured &Manhood &Self Esteem &Stress Reduction

Is My Drinking Out of Control?

January 31st, 2017 @

Addiction often starts out innocently enough as doing something that seems pleasurable or helpful at the time. But Addiction becomes a condition that results when a person ingests a substance, for instance alcohol, illicit drugs, smoking and prescription medications or engages in an activity such as sex or gambling that somewhere along the line shifts […]

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Category : Addictions &Anxiety &Blog &Featured &Men and Anger

7 Ways to Help Address Relationship Conflict

November 1st, 2016 @

Conflict can be seen as an unwelcome part of any relationship and to be avoided at all costs. The idea of talking about conflicting issues with your partner may make you feel very uneasy. Yet the reality is that conflict is an important part of a healthy relationship. It allows you to better understand and […]

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Category : Blog &CoupleStuff &Featured &Manhood &Relationships

Research finds porn addicts brain activity mirrors that of drug addicts.

June 16th, 2016 @

Society and the media often portray addiction as a behavioral choice that a person could change if they really wanted to. This reinforces the commonly held view that quitting an addiction is simply a matter of willpower alone. If you are suffering with addiction you may also judge or view your behaviour through such a […]

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Category : Addictions &Blog &Featured &Porn &Secrets &Sex Addiction

Not knowing what to say in relationships

March 22nd, 2016 @

A common issue I hear in my client work with men is an expression of confusion, or a state of overwhelm in knowing how to act, or respond, within their relationships. This may be in relation to conflict or difficult scenarios or around establishing and maintaining emotional intimacy, connection and closeness. Have you recently felt […]

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Category : Blog &CoupleStuff &Featured &Manhood &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Relationships &Stress Reduction

Why Men Feel Overwhelmed

July 8th, 2015 @

Do you feel overwhelmed? Has overwhelm been a familiar feeling throughout your life, or perhaps it is something that has arisen more recently? Either way, it can have a significant impact on your sense of well being, ability to engage with others, or even to remain effective at home, school, university, college or at work. […]

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Category : Blog &Fatherhood &Featured &Manhood &Procrastination &Stress Reduction &Young Men

The Problem With Porn

May 24th, 2015 @

I was recently interviewed about The Problem with Porn in relation to young men, alongside a couple of other professionals. The interview focuses on the impact of porn on relationships and how men can sometimes treat women as a result of the influences of porn. The part of my interview that was published relates to […]

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Category : Blog &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Porn &Relationships &Young Men

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