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Men & Secrets: Do all men have them?

March 11th, 2013 @

I was chatting to a man earlier today who suggested to me that men tend to be secretive. It took me a moment to consider that statement before I responded with something along the lines of: “Sometimes we may hide things away intentionally. Other times it can be less intentional”. Yes, there are times when [...]

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Category : Blog &Manhood &Secrets

Talking about sex and sexuality

February 21st, 2013 @

Even though it’s often considered a ‘taboo’ subject, it’s important for men to explore and talk about sex and their sexuality. Our sexuality and how we express ourselves sexually is a vital part of who we are. To ignore this, or to hide it away, is simply a way to hide a part of ourselves [...]

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Category : Blog &CoupleStuff &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Porn &Relationships &Sexual Abuse &Young Men

Do You Have a Porn Addiction?

February 21st, 2013 @

For some men this might be a confronting question, but for someone who knows they have a porn addiction, it is possibly one of the most confronting questions they could hear. Once we have explored more about porn addictions the reasons for this may become clearer. So, do you have an addiction to porn? Firstly, [...]

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Category : Addictions &Blog &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Men and Anger &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Porn

How To Stop Procrastinating

February 29th, 2012 @

Do you procrastinate? Do you have goals or ideas of what you’d like to achieve, but sometimes find yourself not able to get started, or not able to complete them. Do you get distracted easily? Do you sometimes find that you’re able to keep yourself really busy but feel that there are more important things [...]

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Category : Blog &Featured &Manhood &Procrastination &Relationships

Breaking the Cycle: Improving Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

October 24th, 2011 @

Clients often come for counselling at Menstuff to discuss challenges that they are having in their relationship. These problems can vary from lack of communication, feeling like they’re not being heard, feeling an overwhelming sense of responsibility, not sure the relationship is going anywhere, or a raft of other reasons. Often an unhealthy pattern has [...]

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Category : CoupleStuff &Men and Anger &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Menstuff for Women &Relationships

Think and Check-In Before You Get Onto The Doom Train

August 5th, 2011 @

Reading the media today, it’s hard not to notice the sense of panic that is starting to seep into the words of many journalists and commentators as a result of the economic shifts appearing over the past couple of weeks and months, and more acutely over the past 24 hours. As men who often have [...]

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Category : Blog &Fatherhood &Leadership &Manhood &Parenting &Relationships

Menstuff Recommendation: Awakening the Leader – Becoming a Man

June 30th, 2011 @

AWAKENING THE LEADER – BECOMING A MAN is an experiential bush leadership program for teenage males from their mid-teens on. The methodology is based on a contemporary rite-of-passage approach, supporting the young man to transition into a man with the capacity for self-reflection and the capability to act responsibly and respectfully in his world. Bolstered [...]

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Category : Blog &Bullying &Manhood &Parenting &Young Men

Finding Your Balls: New Workshop for ‘Men Stuck at Work’

June 23rd, 2011 @

If your work is no longer working for you, this Finding Your Balls workshop will help you explore what is important to you at work, and provide techniques to reignite the work-passion within you. Are you stuck at work? Do you feel you’re in a rut? Is your job a ‘dead-end’? Do you spend so [...]

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Category : Blog &Manhood &Men's Groups &Workplace

Middle-aged men have ‘hotness delusion syndrome’

June 3rd, 2011 @

Interesting article. What do you think? “Hotness delusion syndrome” hitting men Mid-40s men pursued fiercely by women Due to drought, not their attractiveness http://bit.ly/iTrWKb www.menstuff.com.au

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Category : Blog &Manhood &Relationships

Tips for Men: Communicating for Deeper Connection by Talking about Now

May 25th, 2011 @

I’ve heard a number of women say that they’d like a deeper connection with a man, and yet the man in their life doesn’t seem to be able to communicate effectively when it comes to feelings, emotions, experiences, etc. At the same time I’ve heard many men say that they often feel that their partner [...]

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Category : Blog &CoupleStuff &Manhood &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Relationships

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