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Coming Out – Inviting In

March 30th, 2017 @

“Coming out” is generally how the process of letting people know you are same-sex attracted has come to be known. This process – and indeed it is a process – is different for everybody. It’s also something that all same-sex attracted people have in common, having gone through their own “coming out” process. People often […]

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Category : 'Coming Out' &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Young Men

The Quantum Solution – Create Your Own Future

January 30th, 2017 @

I often find people come to see me because they feel stuck. They’re unhappy with their life, unhappy with where they’re at, but can’t see a way forward. Even those who have worked hard on understanding themselves can come to a point where the question becomes “What next?”

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Category : Anxiety &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Happiness &Manhood

Do You Have a Sex Addiction

July 29th, 2015 @

Are you a sex addict? Are you constantly on apps like Tinder trying to organise a hookup? Is the main focus of your weekend about finding a sexual partner? Do you feel compelled to look for sexual engagements in bars, sex clubs, online, or with prostitutes? Of course, seeking and having sex itself is hardly […]

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Category : Addictions &Blog &CoupleStuff &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Porn &Sex Addiction &Sexual Abuse

The Problem With Porn

May 24th, 2015 @

I was recently interviewed about The Problem with Porn in relation to young men, alongside a couple of other professionals. The interview focuses on the impact of porn on relationships and how men can sometimes treat women as a result of the influences of porn. The part of my interview that was published relates to […]

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Category : Blog &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Porn &Relationships &Young Men

Talking about sex and sexuality

February 21st, 2013 @

Even though it’s often considered a ‘taboo’ subject, it’s important for men to explore and talk about sex and their sexuality. Our sexuality and how we express ourselves sexually is a vital part of who we are. To ignore this, or to hide it away, is simply a way to hide a part of ourselves […]

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Category : Blog &CoupleStuff &Featured &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Porn &Relationships &Sexual Abuse &Young Men

Do You Have a Porn Addiction?

February 21st, 2013 @

For some men this might be a confronting question, but for someone who knows they have a porn addiction, it is possibly one of the most confronting questions they could hear. Once we have explored more about porn addictions the reasons for this may become clearer. So, are you addicted to porn? Firstly, let’s understand […]

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Category : Addictions &Blog &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Men and Anger &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Porn

Introduction to Menstuff: Free Information Session (for men and women)

April 26th, 2011 @

Have you visited the Menstuff website and would like to find out more about an aspect of Menstuff? Are you intrigued by the concept of a men’s group but aren’t sure it’s right for you? Is there something troubling you in your life but you’re not yet ready to talk to someone about it? Do […]

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Category : 'Coming Out' &'Man Cave' &Blog &Books &Bullying &Counselling and Coaching Myths &Fatherhood &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Men and Anger &Men and Divorce &Men's Coaching and Counselling &Men's Groups &Parenting &Porn &Relationships &Workplace

Coming Out – Overcoming the Guilt Factor

March 15th, 2011 @

This is a useful article that I came across in relation to sexual confusion and sexual identity … in particular the process of ‘coming out’. The checklist is interesting … ask yourselves these questions below to help gain clarification if you may be gay. I’m not sure that each question in it’s own right is […]

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Category : 'Coming Out' &Blog &Gay/Bi Menstuff &Manhood &Men and Anger &Men's Coaching and Counselling

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