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You ain’t daddy’s little girl, I’m a little girl’s dad – alter your perspective: change your life

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It’s amazing how changing your perspective can completely change your world. We so often get stuck in the rut of the way we look at things that we stagnate, repeat the same mistakes, and gradually become more and more disillusioned. But just how do you set about changing your perspective? Aussie hip hop MC Tim […]

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Category : Blog & Fatherhood & Happiness & Manhood & Parenting & Young Men

ANZAC Day and PTSD

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I’m struck when watching coverage of various ANZAC day ceremonies each year, how much is made of physical suffering, and how little of the mental scars that accompany war. It’s also not just enlisted personnel who suffer. Civilian support staff, local civilians, and those close to sufferers are also directly affected. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder […]

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Category : Blog & PTSD & Trauma

Coming Out – Inviting In

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“Coming out” is generally how the process of letting people know you are same-sex attracted has come to be known. This process – and indeed it is a process – is different for everybody. It’s also something that all same-sex attracted people have in common, having gone through their own “coming out” process. People often […]

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Category : 'Coming Out' & Featured & Gay/Bi Menstuff & Young Men

Fostering our Self-Esteem

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Self-esteem has been one of those hotly researched topics in recent years. In our self-help era we are told that having a positive self-image is the necessary ingredient to leading a happy and successful life. While it may be true that how we think about ourselves is directly associated with our psychological wellbeing, the big […]

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Category : Blog & Featured & Manhood & Self Esteem & Stress Reduction

Breathing to Regulate Stress

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We are fast discovering how important a tool breathing is as a  method of regulating mood and alleviating distress.    While the links are still poorly understood, there is much to learn of immediate benefit, particularly if you are stressed, anxious, or fearful. It is well known that people who are angry, fearful, or in […]

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Category : Anxiety & Happiness & Meditation & Meditation for Men & Men and Anger & Young Men

The Quantum Solution – Create Your Own Future

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I often find people come to see me because they feel stuck. They’re unhappy with their life, unhappy with where they’re at, but can’t see a way forward. Even those who have worked hard on understanding themselves can come to a point where the question becomes “What next?”

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Category : Anxiety & Gay/Bi Menstuff & Happiness & Manhood